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May newsletter

May 2026 Newsletter

A  new discovery in this newsletter: Stemless is new entry in the space, a kind of radical-authenticity practice with some pretty interesting writing and concepts. I intend to check it out. 

I am currently in Denmark exploring a partly AR-inspired deep we-space, regenerative culture experiment called Regenera. I have booked Hannah Hirsh and Nina Chausow to contribute their fascinating stories to the Circling Guide 3rd edition (see below). Have your ever thought of moving in with your AR friends? Or even creating your own eco-village? Then stay tuned. 


Circling Guide Anthology (3rd edition) still needs your support

The Circling Guide Anthology is a bit behind schedule but I have decided it’s more important that it be good than on-time. So it’s now going to be an early June release. 

The good news is that many of the contributor articles are now in, and I am very impressed by the depth and range. Many well-known leaders in the movement have committed, including John Thompson on Surrendered Leadership,  Robert MacNaughton on business, Jordan Allen on spiritualty, Susan Campbell on The Roots of Authentic Relating, Jason Digges on the Architecture of Transformation, and more. It will be entertaining and informative to hear their stories and perspectives, and will bring more credibility and more depth to our beloved movement. 

As such, I am asking you to contribute generously. $10 donations will receive a kindle-compatible version, $25 and up gives you a print copy mailed to you, and $100 and up gives you 3-4 copies to give to your friends. Many people have given even more. 


Ours & Partner Events

  • 6-week Authentic Relating in Community with me and Sophie. 6-week closed containers are now scheduled according to people’s availability. Low-income pricing of just $300 with some scholarships available. Information here.
  • We-Flow is hosting an Online Immersion May 9-10 , plus another Nature Retreat in October which builds on the success of their March retreat. We-Flow is a program which combines AR and Zen state training to bring AR practice into execution container or creation containers. From my perspective this represents the cutting-edge of this work. 

What’s Happening in the Community

Transformational Connection

All events on the TC site.

  • 2–3 May — Bristol Weekend Immersion
  • 9–10 May — Portugal Hub Weekend (at the TC house)
  • 9–10 May — Edinburgh Weekend Immersion (register via TC site)
  • 13–14 Jun — Amsterdam Weekend Immersion
  • 22–28 Jun — Surrendered Leadership Week, Malmö
  • 4–9 Jul — UK Transformational Connection Festival
  • 15–20 Aug — International TC Festival (near Amsterdam)
  • 28 Sep — Coaching Training begins (6-month)
  • Portugal Hub reopens for retreats in May, June, September & October

ART International

All courses on authenticrelating.co.

In-person Level 1 — Save $100 on Early Bird (one month out):

  • 9–10 May — Seattle, WA
  • 16–17 May — Mexico City (Embodied Edition)
  • 23–24 May — London, England
  • 6–7 Jun — Stockholm, Sweden
  • 13–14 Jun — Asheville, NC (registration on Level 1 page)
  • 27–28 Jun — Bay Area, CA (registration on Level 1 page)
  • 7–8 Aug — La Fortuna, Costa Rica (registration on Level 1 page)
  • 5–6 Sep — Zurich, Switzerland (registration on Level 1 page)
  • 10–11 Oct — Madison, WI (registration on Level 1 page)

Online Level 1 — six 3-hour weekly sessions:

  • 20 May — US/Europe Embodied
  • 4 Jun — US/Asia Embodied
  • 1 Jul — US/Europe

Free Intro Session — May 4 (online). Register on authenticrelating.co.

Level 3: Relational Leadership — 7-day immersions:

  • 6–12 Jun — Crestone, CO (Blazing Mountain Retreat Center)
  • 28 Aug – 3 Sep — Europe
  • 5–11 Dec — Bali

Authentic Revolution

All offerings on authrev.org.

  • 8–10 May — Authentic Leadership Training, Bastrop, TX — pay-what-it’s-worth ($295–$375, down from $845–$925). 
  • Monthly Authentic Relating Games (free)
  • Bi-weekly Fight Lab & Facilitation Fight Lab (free)

Art of Relating (Belgium)

All events information here.

  • 22–25 May — Transformational Connection in Nature retreat
  • 25 May — Day Retreat at Kasteelhoeve Wange
  • 22–26 Jul — Mini Festival in the Semois valley

The Relateful Company

All offerings on relateful.com.

  • April 27, 10 weeks: Relateful Experiments in “Waking Up” is a new course & practice group which will dive deep deep into exploring awareness, nonduality, oneness, fundamental wellbeing, nonseparation, the world as illusion (and the perfectly helpful inadequacy and poor assumptions in of all these words and maps).
  • 14–17 May — Level Up Local Weekend, Austin
  • 29–31 May — Charlotte Immersion with Valerie Daniel & James Dial (early-bird deadline 15 May)
  • 13 Aug — Level Up Cohort starts (9-month program). Level Up is my Alma Mater and one of the highest-value Circling Trainings available. They have moved to a cohort-based program which means you start and finish together. 
  • 14 Sep — Coaching Training begins (4-month, early-bird ends 31 Jul)

Deep Play Institute

All events on deepplayinstitute.com.

  • 15–17 May — Circling Intensive, Philadelphia
  • 9–12 Jul or 16–19 Jul — Order of the Amethyst Heart 2.0 (LARP), 1.5 hrs from Portland OR
  • 6–9 Aug — Psychodrama Retreat, near Carson WA
  • 16–20 Sep — Bridging the Dream & Flesh Bodies, Elkenmist Retreat Center

Connection Institute 

Calendar & registration on theconnectioninstitute.net.

  • From 28 Apr — Relational Leadership Lab with Tania Shybko — 6 sessions, alternating Tuesdays, 12pm CST
  • Free Share-Feel-Request events, alt. Tuesdays 1pm CST
  • 5–7 weekly classes (Birthday Circles, Soul Circling, Parts Theatre, Refining Facilitation, etc.)

Stemless (welcome!)

All groups on stemless.substack.com.

  • 8-week closed groups starting May, “The Art of Blamership”:
    • Tuesdays 7–9pm CET / 10am–12pm PST (Harmony + Sahil)
    • Wednesdays 6–8pm PST (Harmony + Sahil)
    • Thursdays 6–8pm CET / 9–11am PST (James + Sahil)
    • Sundays 5–7pm CET / 8–10am PST (Harmony + Sahil)
    • Sundays 8–10pm CET / 11am–1pm PST (Harmony + Sahil)

Susan Campbell

Updates on susancampbell99.substack.com. 

  • 5 May, 10–11am PT — Free monthly webinar: The Five Stages of Relationship — Intimacy as a Spiritual Path
  • 9–10 May — Getting Real workshop, Sebastopol, CA — $395 (waitlist)
  • 16 Sep – 8 Nov — Honesty Salon Series, 8 sessions, $260

Megan Taylor Morrison

  • 14–19 May — Phoenix Mastermind, Andalucia, Spain. megantaylormorrison.com

AR Writers, Podcasters & Creators

Articles

  • Susan Campbell — Losing Physical Capacity in the Final Stage of Life (Apr 26). A tender personal essay applying Kübler-Ross’s five stages of dying to the moment her partner is told he can no longer drive.
  • Susan Campbell — Frequently Asked Questions about Relationship Repair (Apr 12). Four practical Q&As on partner readiness, resistance, betrayal-repair, and re-triggering mid-repair.
  • Susan Campbell — Getting Real About Getting Older: Reflections on Turning 75 (Mar 22). At 85, she re-reads what she wrote at 75. Equanimity, dis-identification, and “letting myself go” in slow motion.
  • Sara Ness (Authentic Revolutionary) — How to Handle Betrayal (Mar 20). Seven hard-won lessons after a year of public smear campaigns, lawsuits, and community-leadership trauma.
  • The Container — Impact: The Circle’s Secret God (Mar 20). On honoring impact in Circling — neither resisting nor stoking it, but bowing to it.
  • Stemless — Closed Groups Open for Sign-ups: Learn the Stemless Art of “Blamership” (Mar 30). C.S. Lewis on affection, projection, and “subtle ownership” in relating.
  • Michael Blas — featured in Relateful 3 Things (Apr 9).

Podcasts

  • The Relateful Podcast has launched!. Hosted by Liz & Philip Watson — listen on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.
  • The Container Podcast continues to be the go-to place to stay informed about people and events in the movement. See Best Spiritual Practices for Awakening with Daniel Schmidt (director of the Samadhi films, founder of Awaken the World) for a juicy conversation on how Circling sits alongside meditation, entheogens, and self-inquiry, and the earlier episode with Peter Munthe-Kaas. An interview of me is coming soon!

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  • Authentic Relating, A Map of the Territory: Part 1
  • A clearer Substack and what’s coming this year
  • Jokes and Marriage, Part 2

Upcoming Events

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Communities Map

Authentic Relating Organizations

  • Circling Institute (San Francisco and Global)
  • The Relateful Company  (previously CircleAnywhere). Global
  • Transformational Connection (previously Circling Europe), Europe
  • ART International (Global)
  • Authentic Relating Go (Global)
  • Connection Institute (Boston & Global)
  • The Connection Movement (New York City)
  • Austin Circling Studio (Austin, TX)
  • Evolutionary Relating (Australia)
  • Circling Cornwall (UK)
  • Let’s Be Authentic (Philadelphia, PA)
  • Realness Project (Prison work)
  • The Awkward Leadership School (Toronto)
  • Integral Centered Leadership (Boulder, CO)

Local communities can be found on Meetup.com and on the Authentic Revolution communities map

Recommended Books

Quotes

  • “There is no place to get to but more here” — Decker Cunov, co-founder of Circling
  • “You will always outlive my concept of you. And I will always have a concept for you to outlive” — Guy Sengstock, founder of Circling
  • “Pain is not a punishment, pleasure is not a reward… good and bad, happy and sad, all thoughts vanish into emptiness” — Pema Chodron
  • “If we were all to sit in a circle and confess our sins, we would laugh at each other for lack of originality” — Kahlil Gibran
  • “No one cares how much you know, until they know how much you care” — Theodore Roosevelt
  • “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand. They listen with the intent to reply” — Stephen Covey
  • “Trust that people move towards wholeness, and we just have to follow” — Alexis Shepperd, co-founder of the Authentic Woman Experience
  • “Depression is the reward we get for being ‘good’ ” — Marshall Rosenberg
  • When we are angry, killing people is too superficial — Marshall Rosenberg
  • “You don’t need to get what you want if you can express what you want” — Strephon Kaplan-Williams

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